(This is an old post but it felt relevant to have at the forefront again. Especially now as the emergence of another pathway, of the feminine arts and Sacred Laws, is cracking people open to seek answers for their empty and broken soul. Spiritual tourism is at an all time high. It’s a bit messy- like life- with all of the paper shamans and lack of integration and way too many “coaches”. And it is all totally where we are at and so it’s actually perfect.
Maybe you can relate. You have something to say but you are afraid of your words being minced inside mouths craving attention and regurgitated back at you with foul odor. Or, maybe you find yourself on long Facebook feeds, adrenaline pumping, reading the adversarial banter that has taken away 5–10 minutes, maybe years, of your precious life force. Or, you read something you know will be controversial and you begin to troll for the drama of that person being called out. Maybe, just maybe, you notice a quickening of pulse, a twist in the guts, and a lil something in yourself wanting to call them out, set them straight, make them wrong.
“The Sacred Wound is the critical act in which the mortal achieves divinity.”Jean Houston
What if I told you that you can never fully heal. That you can scratch to the bone, gnaw at your sinew and suckle your marrow and you will still feel an impenetrable, troubling, haunting itch.
But you will continue to scratch. And although it brings temporary relief, the scratching has created a wound. But you keep scratching and covering the wound with “over the counter” tricks in hopes that it will heal. Until one day you slip and fall in the ooze of the wound that is now inhabiting the landscape of your life.
For most of my 30s I would wake in the morning with this underlying anxiety that would hit me with a subtle waive of nausea. The thoughts that accompanied this feeling would all be centered around this theme of “running out of time to prove my feminine worthiness”. In my mind I was racing against time, I was racing against myself and I also felt as though as I was racing against other women- which is a perpetuating factor, I believe, in our current imbalances. Above all, I felt alone. When we don’t connect and learn from one another we also perpetuate a shame around our bodies not working, not being loved, not loving ourselves and so on. This separation just compounds the feelings of unworthiness and embarrassment at being (insert age here) without a man and a baby- a perfect picture of balanced family-career-love.
Recently I held space for a woman’s transformation with the help of psilocybin. We met three times. First to prepare her, enter into prayer and set intentions. Then the day of ceremony where I was an angeling, present witness to her unfolding layers. And a follow up integration session to help her make new choices and formulate a day to day plan to bring the medicine alive in “real” life.
For over an hour in the ceremony her body shook. The medicine was moving into the frozen places within her nervous system and rocking her free from the grips of old wounds. She had come to a point in her life where the day to day tools that could keep her head above water had worn out and she was suffering inside. However, she knew she wasn’t her suffering. I sense most of us know we are not all the suffering in our lives, which is why, even in the most trying circumstances, we keep going. There is an incorruptible love song for life that cannot be completely silenced. Even in death that song is alive, yet shifting and aligning to its evolution and resurrection to make more music.
As my client came down “the other side of the mountain” and found her stillness again, I could feel the Earth under us had shifted. She shared that for the first time in her life, and what she was gravely missing, was her deep connection to Mama Gaia. She wept for gratitude for my presence, revealing that she is aware of the strength of my soul to be able to tend such spaces without waiver, and only with the upmost respect, compassion and love.
Her life has changed. The core of her separation wounds revealed and her birthright to be fully nurtured in her life restored- well beginning to be restored. The medicine she received will fully reveal itself within the mundane moments of her life when she is confronted with the day to day navigation of mind-heart. That love that she touched will be more bio available for the nervous system. This is how we change the story from a life of suffering to the innate love story ready to be told under the layers of false perception.
In healing these deep layers, it is not the big huge revelation all at once that typically heals, but it plants the seed. It is the moment in the day where she will make one little different choice towards self love that dominoes into the next. This is the blossoming. Every petal tenderly unfolds in perfection. No forcing. Every flower is needed in the garden of Life and every flower has its ripe and ready time to bring more color to the palette of paradise.
I could say I have a selfish motive in this. I know I live in a garden, in paradise. I know that when one of my brothers and sisters blossoms I have more access to the perfume that opens the heart. When one heals we all heal. The medicine becomes more accessible. The other motive is that I get to be in direct contact with Earth mama medicine and deliver true abundant Source nourishment to starving souls. I came here to be with Her, to be supported and loved and sustained by that which called my life into service at this time, and many times before. And so did everyone else.
There is a saying- “the medicine is always with you”. Through out my medicine journeys for the last decade I have been stopped in my tracks at some random (never random) moment with a full body memory of one of my initiations and healings. Sometimes these moments are years later because that is how long it can take for true restoration and readiness of these really grippy drippy wounds to heal. Never have I felt so held in those moments. Never have I understood time in a new, nonlinear way, my vast soul and courtship with the wisdom of death- than in those moments. Because those moments contain not only a healing that comes unfurling from the depths of my heart but because they also contain an unnameable essence that connects me to something large, loving and timeless- and I FEEL it.
I no longer deny the feelings because I know the intelligence of my intuitive wisdom lives in my emotional body, my feminine body, my feeling body. And plant medicines, prayer and walking a path that aligns to that intelligence have freed up the frozen bits to heal and reveal their Goddess given gifts.
The medicines of the Earth ally the healer within to remember that the medicine every soul needs for its greatest expression is inside each of us. They are not drugs. (More on that from the Port Townsend Psychedelic Society). Psilocybin in particular connects the body to the memory of all things of this Earth and Her contracts with humanity to live in perfect reciprocity, abundance and continual evolution in making more love. These fungal allies are part of a vast mycelial network that communicate life codes, and thus companion our mind to communicate more clearly with our hearts and our souls- already attuned to these life codes. They help rewire what was corrupted and confused.
Psilocybin is considered what we plant folk call a “master plant”. Although it is a fungus it falls into the category of the Earth medicines that move big mountains and require dedicated practitionering, initiation and experience in order to ally another on a psychedelic healing journey. They require right relationship and permission from the innate intelligence that birthed us all. Because permission was granted at birth for each one of us to fulfill our unique soul path- in alignment with Life. Yet, often they also require permission from the indigenous peoples who held these medicines on their altar for many generations.
These particular plant medicines are master teachers, meaning they contain a Universal blueprint that tells the story of all Life. Each individual creation story, meaning each soul’s purpose, is encoded within these master story tellers.
Plant medicines, particularly Ayahuasca and Psilocybin have saved my life and guided my path. And, as a folk herbalist for many years, I know that one of the reasons I am still upright and continuing to blossom (slowly) is that I have been supported by my dedicated relationship with herbal medicine, natural foods and commitment to stewarding my life by a deeper Universal rhythm connected to sustainability, regeneration and true nourishment.
I have had 100s of experiences of watching my neurobiology repattern itself and emerge with a greater sense of connection to love within myself. I have healed severe addiction and life threatening trauma through my dedication to the medicine path.
What I caution is the impulse to run out and try these medicines with the “little blue pill” mentality. The healing mostly comes from the integration of the journey (read my integration page). It can be cruel to yourself and desacralizing of these medicines to not be ready in heart and mind to make changes. I ask every client “are you really ready for your life to change?”. This question begets the conversation around true desire, authentic abundance and alignment with virtues -for another time.
And- the caveat to the above statement is that I would rather have some messy medicine work than have none at all. Plants get in and expand their wisdom regardless. Because plants heal. Prayers are answered. You are the medicine. You are Love.
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He asked me about my father. We have been conscious of how we tell one another about our lives since our reunion. The gift of our connection came by way of transfiguring the stories of our lives into beauty- we are the reflection of the medicine on the other side. We are committed to creating new patterns in relating rather than knowing one another and ourselves by our wounds.
The question caught me by surprise, mid stream chopping radishes. I took a pause wanting to be careful with my words. Our ancestors standing by “which story will she tell?”. I can hear their voices now that I have learned how to alchemize my words into a good, true and beautiful spell.
I didn’t expect the flood of tears to rise to my eyes. My cheeks shaking and my jaw tight. Why do I still want to break down and cry when I have left the story of my father and I behind?
He was steady, watching me. Negotiating inside of himself how to take back his words. But this is how we build trust, these moments. He patiently watched as I found what needed to be said.
I told him of how I wrote my father a letter a couple of years ago spilling forth every trapped voice that could never say “NO!” And, “how dare you! I am your child!?” I told him that my exile to the edge of the ledge was at 16 when I fled my home. But guess who else was cast to the fray? Who knew I was being called by my teachers that dark, those dark, days.
That in that letter I told my father of my journey to uncovering the medicine in my bones and that the medicine is what I was choosing to claim of him- the hands of his that could shape wood into monuments of love and build homes and grow gardens and cook amazing meals and finish algebra homework and teach me how to change the oil on my car. That I think he was a dancer and poet under all the heaviness of the body he struggled to maintain in some shape that someone says looks like belonging.
The tears in my heart are from a deep longing to sit and talk to the man behind the pain.
I believe in restorative justice. It’s what regenerates paradise, makes gardens grow and waters flow to nourish the children. Any one can heal. I am healed. Everyone is born whole.
Yet, my boundaries are clear that I can send a prayer of healing and still say “no”. The door to the story is closed but not locked. In my letter there was an invitation back into my life if my father was willing to sit in the crucible and do the work I have had to do to save my life.
I said my piece and returned to chopping radishes. This beautiful man came behind me and wrapped his arms around me. With no words he goes to sit down and asks “can I read you something?”.
Expecting him to share something from Martine Prechtel’s book he is currently reading, he opens his heart and begins to recite my own poetry. Carefully finding the cadence for a language that he has never used and has known all along, watching me as each word landed in the space between us shapeshifting my life before my eyes.
Pouring “my medicine” back into me, creating a feedback loop of love and beauty, reflecting what moves through me, helping me to see how far I have come to know that I am that love I speak of. That I was born of the love I speak of.
He asks “how does that land? How do you feel now?”.
“You’re brilliant” I said. And I kissed him until the Earth spun on a slightly new axis- rebalancing Herself towards love.
My life has become the shape of how I see the world. He is the shape of how I see the world. He is a father, a lover, a brother, a son, a master of his own inner universe and a devoted student to life. The wounded masculine and broken father no longer center stage in my story line. He is proof that the hunches in my heart of what this life is truly made for are real.
I know that when men like him are walking the Earth, magic is afoot and life is beginning to restore to balance. I know that what he tends is available for every man to tend and by this tending, this presence, life will blossom in beauty all around him. Feeding him, quenching him, resurrecting his oath as a man.
Why do I tell this story today? Well, it’s the Solstice- the celebration of the flame that ignites the codes of life into light from her dark watery womb. It’s Father’s Day, the seed bearers, the fire tenders. We must celebrate.
It’s a love story. My life story. One in the same. Thank you.
Happy Solstice. Happy Father’s Day.
“Once upon a time, When women were birds, There was the simple understanding That to sing at dawn And to sing at dusk Was to heal the world through joy. The birds still remember what we have forgotten, That the world is meant to be celebrated.”Terry Tempest Williams
Those who know the power of visions and of dreams will tell you that our dreams and our visions come from the deep mysterious space that houses and connects us all to the first flame. That every vision from this sacred space, unobstructed by the conditioned mind, is a gift and a guide towards healing for the individual and for the people. This is why every single Earthwise culture held dream circles as vital for healing the tribe and providing oracular guidance.
I have only spoken this story aloud because it is a prayer. Because when I speak it aloud I watch the person/people listening and I can see the magic awakening in them the possibility of living a mystical life. And, I need to see and feel it reflected to continue integrating its realness. Because if I didn’t feel the transmission from someone telling this story, if I didn’t see the salmon swimming in their eye like is seen in mine, I would assume the story to be fiction.
There are things I must preface in this story. Truths of my life.
I do not travel anywhere I am not fully called towards by a very deep and mysterious voice inside of me. This voice is from the Ancestral realm and guides me often. It is a felt sense that I have learned not to ignore. I do not go on vacations. I move about the Earth to the few places I have been as though it is, and it is, a classroom.
Once I say yes I begin to see the synchronicities pop up in my life to ally me along. However, in the moment of them arriving, I am somewhat still, necessarily, unaware of the fullness of their guidance. I know that I can never fully look in myself as I am being stewed inside of the cauldron. And only in arriving to clear pivot points and thresholds do I see that I was following my innate breadcrumb trail- sprinkled manna from Heaven…
It was autumn of 2017 after the impactful totality eclipse in the Northwestern hemisphere. I was being flattened by God again as I watched my entire 10 year healing arts practice crumble in a matter of 24 hours. This was not the first flattening, and so I surrendered and let another force, the one I thought I could control, take over. Injured, exhausted and yet filled with a sense of relief, I knew it was time for change and it was time to listen deeper.
I found myself exiting the city, selling everything (not much) and moving into, first, a tiny room and then 250 sq foot ADU in a small town on the Olympic coast in Washington state. As I moved I began to hear their voices. The ones who guide. The ones who have always been there. That which has never died. The ones who can tell the stories of birthing forth all Life.
You see, I have always received this guidance but I would never allow it into my heart all of the way. But Spirit is clever and Life is immaculate in Her workings, so they both found their way with me.
I kept hearing “go to Ireland” amidst all of the moving about and reorganizing of my life. But, as I said, I resisted this voice and wouldn’t allow myself to just follow it without a good reason to go. Reasoning was always to satisfy the projected judgement from my family that I am “reckless and traveling about for no reason and the when will I finally get a real life, security”. So if it was for my “educational” pathway they would pull back their projections. Not really, the deeper wound lives inside of me; my inner judge, my inner projections, my inner gaslight bearer. Anyhow.
This is when I met Stephen Jenkinson’s work. And, something upwelled in me; a clear Yes to follow his work all the way to Iceland and join the “Come From Away” group in his Orphan Wisdom school. I heard laughing in the veil and I knew that if I was getting on a plane to Iceland, then I was getting on a plane to Ireland. My ancestors are brilliant.
Synchronicities, instructions and visions ensued. The land I had just moved on to belongs(ed) to the many Native American Salish tribes. When I would sit with the land, inquiring as I do, I would see canoes and baskets of medicine and wisdom councils gathering. The salmon began to speak to me from under the now dried up waters that used to reach all the way up to the little house I lived in. I could feel the grief from all that died hiding wisdom inside alongside that wisdom, connecting me to the salmon and the salmon cross culturally to my Celtic ancestry- to all ancestry.
The salmon is the symbol of reciprocal law, of the ultimate wisdom from the first Well that feeds all the waters of Life. The Native American coastal tribes hold the Salmon as the most reverent symbol for this exchange with Orca, with Bear, with Tree, with Human. The Celtic stories of the Well of Segais tell of the Salmon of wisdom and its gift to the Bards, who tended the creation story.
These visions led me to an Imbolc teaching by a neurodivergent genius, herbal medicine master, tender of the Blackheart Fairy traditions and now dear friend, Sean Donahue. He was doing a three day ceremony at my herbal medicine teacher’s, Leslie Lekos, house. I did not know him at the time and yet, I knew he was tribe. It was when we met that he revealed he was leading a deep immersion into Irish myth and medicine in June 2018- the exact dates I was planning on arriving in Ireland. I kept following…
During those three days at Leslie’s celebrating Imbolc we sat and microdosed many different plants to feel their energetic signature. When we took Osha I was swept away to a forest where a mother bear met me and guided me along a river. I remember feeling so inept in this presence, wanting to direct the journey, not allowing myself to really feel what was appearing for me. She kept saying “listen, trust, follow me, I won’t hurt you, and there is nothing for you to do.” We went to a rainbow waterfall where she got into the pool below and fished out a salmon. She brought it up to the bank and put it in front of me. I wanted so badly to feel unworthy and give it back to her, I kept asking “how do I prepare this for you?”. “This is not for me, child. This is for you. We have been trying to gift you this. Your gift to me is to receive this, take it into your body, allow”. I wept, said thank you and the vision cleared.
As Iceland and Ireland approached I kept getting guidance and a sense of what kind of magic I might be in for on my travels. Yet, I kept an open channel so that I wouldn’t get looped into expectations of any sort.
Spring/Summer 2018 arrived and it was time. Iceland was beyond extraordinary with its midnight sun, the deep Norse ceremony I was invited into and Stephen’s wisdom, but that is not this story.
My arrival into Ireland afterward was not welcoming. The guards at the gate held me in questioning for a long time, not willing to let yet another American just galavant about seeking. Very skeptical of me learning of the old ways, as I told them I was in an herbal medicine school for a week. I learned quickly that my perception of the Irish people being steeped in magic was false. That although they live upon some of the most mythically rich landscape I have ever encountered, known historically, they have been severely severed from their own roots and hold anyone seeking the mythical path as a threat. It’s in the epigenetics. It’s to stay safe.
When I finally made it to Gort, and met with the group Sean was leading, I fell ill and was mostly out of sorts for that part of my journey. I kept sweeping away the voice that expected some magical fairy to just take me deep into the Oak forest and gift the answers to the unanswerable. And yet I was absorbing something. I could feel them everywhere. The ancestors. The eyes in the hills and the grief tears that poured from them.
My plan after was to immerse myself in the west of Ireland for weeks until my last day, the Summer solstice; to be with the cliffs, with John O’Donahue’s grave, both of which I visited. But I was quickly directed south as the rains coming into the west were overwhelming. South was not my plan. Where to go? Port McGee was supposed to be the spot I heard . So I flawlessly drove my rental car, left handed, left side of the road, down the coast. It was the most impeccably sunny day as I open mouth gawked at the Kerry Ring en route to my destination; it is one of the most beautiful drives in the world.
All the while, the background voice wondering about the Bard I was supposed to meet, the music I was supposed to be greeted with, the magical initiation I was supposed to receive was gnawing. Not that I wasn’t fully absorbed in the gratitude of all that I was experiencing.
At the end of a long 6 hours I landed in Port McGee. I found my guest house and set out on foot to explore and take pictures. Just then, as I was crossing the bridge, a man in a car leans his head out the window and asks me if I need a place to stay. Now, as a single and “easy on the eyes” woman I put up a quick guard. But he stopped and got out of his car. Because I kept turning my head around and looking all about like I was lost- he thought I was lost.
I allowed him to come closer. He was mid 60s, super friendly face and super friendly Irish accent to boot. It is customary for random strangers to invite you to their home, for food, for a bed, for a good long Irish conversation, song and story. He offered a free place to stay in his home and after some quick asking around of some of the local women, I said yes.
I don’t ever meet anyone by accident. I forgot to preface that. Not anyone that has a direct impact like this man was planned to have. As one of my dear friends says “Spirit never lets me miss the connections I am here to make”.
Mike Griffin. Mike Griffin wanted nothing more than to show his hospitality. For me to hear his stories about the children that don’t speak to him. For me to just relax and let myself be. He had some very interesting healing gifts which was surprising for a man who was a funeral director in the winters and a tour guide in the summers. What happened to me in that house I still cannot explain. His love, his friendship and sweet witness, his reminding me of my lonely father (with whom I have no relationship), sent me into a spiral of deep hopeless dark contractions of anxiety and depression. The rains came and here I was, sitting in this house, staring out at one of the most beautiful landscapes I have ever seen, on deeply potent land, being cared for and dying- I was sure of it. So dying I was willing to spend $1500 of money I did not have to fly home within days and escape this crucible.
“Where is my bard, my light, my direction, my magical experience, why did you bring me here?” As embarrassed as I was for myself, I had a mini tantrum with God. Where was my gratitude, my faith, my heart?
Mike pulled me into a chair, helped me breathe. I broke open and remembered that I know these ways. To trust the medicine guiding me. That the voice I said yes to in the beginning, whichever beginning you believe I am referring to, is the one I follow and has never let me drown in the vastness when I step off the cliff.
I also knew that something needed movement, so I decided to leave Port McGee and Mike Griffin’s beautiful heart. I had NO idea where to go as none of this was planned. So I phoned a friend living in Dublin that I met in a spiritual healing “training” in Belize. She gave me directions to her ex partner’s house in Cork county on the coast. She said he ran a beautiful shamanic healing and drum making community. I exhaled a bit feeling like “finally my people”. Come to find out from a quick phone call to my grandmother that my ancestors were from Cork. Funny how she never mentioned that before.
And all of sudden I felt movement in the grid, beyond the veil. When I got to the coast I was gifted a beautiful, rustic bungalow on an estate and invited to a drum journey and sauna/ocean plunge afterwards. The drum journey, again, is a story for another time as it gave me another clue to the Soul name, Shira Stardrift, that has taken me many lifetimes to remember.
After the journey, we went to the shore and met a woman who turned a trailer into one of the most beautiful wood saunas I have even seen. She travels Ireland giving people this experience and lives mostly nomadic. Forgive me for forgetting names.
It was the third night of my being on the coast and the Solstice was approaching. I asked them all “where do I go as I was told to be somewhere for the Solstice for something but I have no idea where that is?” Now mind you, that you can just wander into any old field and find a sacred site to sit and pray in Ireland.
The sauna woman looked at me clearly and said one word “Uisneach”. “Ok, where and what is that?” Uisneach is the sister hill to Tara and dead center of the island, the ‘belly button’ as it’s called. She said there was a gathering and she was heading there and I could meet her in a few days. So I planned a route that took me through Glendaloch (Ireland’s first monastic city) and was belly button bound. I then booked a place to stay at Uisneach that, when I booked, I got the clear sense that the owner had accidentally left their listing up. It was definitely my place.
Whoosh this is long. But must be told for all the context and to keep with the slow and complete Irish pace of storytelling..
Ok, I am feeling the tears well up inside as I retell this part of the story.
My expectations grew as I visualized pulling up to this amazing festival with Irish music and prayerfulness all around. But as I pulled up to Uisneach all I saw was a gate, a small house to the right and no people anywhere. I went to the house, assuming it was where I was supposed to stay, as it was the only one around for miles, and knocked. I heard a little voice inside and entered into what, at first, looked like “hoarders of children’s toys gone wild”. I contracted, wanted to run, this was not the vibe for my ceremony. Where was my gathering? My expectations trapping me again.
When the owner came out she said she had randomly checked her email earlier and saw the reservation for the listing she though she took down. Wink wink. And that she was so happy to have me. I asked her about the big gathering and she looked puzzled. “The hill is private, only small tours and special appointments are allowed”. So she called the man, Justin Moffatt, who tends the hill and I met him at the gate. He explained that yes they were having a Solstice gathering on that day but not a festival gathering like the sauna woman described.
But, he could see in my eye that I was on a mission and he took me up onto the hill and began to tell me every single story of its history and took me to see sites that he doesn’t even show on the small daily tours. The next day Justin Let me join the tour and right in the middle, as we were all on the top of the hill he received a call. He turns to everyone and says “ok then, Jamie (my birth name) will finish the tour with ya and take ya down to the gift shop after for tea and cookies”. My jaw dropped wide open. He handed me the keys to the kingdom. He said, he could tell I was connected to something and as he walked away I could feel all the stories rise through my bones. I was alive with them and every person on that tour could feel it also and just kept asking me questions that I somehow knew how to answer. Deep bow ancestors. But wait there’s more..
Inside the hoarders house lived two of the most loving women, Lisa and her Au Pair, Grazia, and one of the most potent, loving, imaginative, neurodivergent (autism spectrum) 5 year old boys I will ever meet. They melted my heart and I could have stayed forever in the mountains of toys and clothes and laughter. I learned so much about appearances and my conditioned responses. I always am.
For two days I wandered the hill alone, listening and praying and still wondering what happened to the gathering I was told about from sauna woman. Just then a car goes by as I come down off the hill. They said they were on their way to a small Bardic gathering next to the hill just a quarter mile down. Next to the hill. I asked Justin and he said “oh yeah, that gathering!” Geesh.
I found my way past the bounds of Uisneach and to the gathering. If I could send you a telepathic snapshot you would maybe fall out of your chair. I have been to festivals, and this one, although very small, was full on Celtic mysticism. The people’s faces were carved from Tree while their eyes shone like Wishing Well. I had to blink. Just then I saw sauna woman and was introduced to a whole tribe of people who I discovered have met there every year for the last 20 years to celebrate. I also met a woman named April who is from the otherworld altogether it seems and we have stayed in touch since.
We sang, we danced and they invited me to stay. I explained my current home and that they would be expecting me as well as my ability to access the hill anytime. They were a bit shocked as no one without permission, or some organized group, by the land stewards can access willingly. But they said that on the Solstice the other world opens up access and they have always wandered to the top of the hill where the Beltaine fire ceremony is held to watch the sun go down.
I went back to the house to prepare for the next day’s Solstice ceremony with Justin as he asked for help, all the while still wondering where the initiation was- or maybe this was it. This was really good but there was an incompleteness in the air and I had one day left.
The day was bright. There was not a cloud in the sky. I roamed the hill and began to feel a magic stirring. The organized Uisneach gathering was to begin soon at 4pm, and the Bardic folk were planning on wandering up about 6. I wanted to be everywhere and felt this odd allegiance and commitment to helping Justin. Now, because I had keys to the kingdom my inner “little general”, as one ex would call me when I was given any authority, kicked in. Instead of flow, I want to control who can and can’t (Fill in the blank).
So, when I saw the white van on the top of the hill, out of nowhere, I wanted to know who let this van in, did they have permission, yada yada. Eye roll at myself.
I was mesmerized, consumed by its presence and completely frozen in front of it. Just then the side door opens and an absolutely beautiful, bearded, freshly wild man stepped out (telepathic picture incoming). He looked nowhere except directly at me. My guts and my heart became one.
He walks up to me, pulls on his beard and asks me “would you like to cook a salmon?” The dialogue in the backround: “you already ate, Justin needs you, where on Earth will we do that without getting in trouble, who are you anyway?!”.
I said, without hesitation, “yes I would”.
Out of the back of his van he pulled a beautiful, cold, fresh caught salmon direct from the River Shannon. He looked over at a Hawthorne tree and I said “no, not there”. I knew people would walk by that path, and I had offered a braided bit of my hair, cut by my mother, to the fairies inside the trunk. (there is so much more to say but for another day).
He then looked at the Hawthorne ring surrounding an area that was once a palace. He put the salmon in my hands, grabbed a harp from his front seat, a worn leather bag and we headed to cook a salmon. As I gathered bits of old Hawthorn for the fire he gathered stone and began to sing an old song that mirrored the journey of my life. I was dizzy and completely spellbound.
My nervousness that we would get in trouble began to rise, but I was now in the veil and the Otherworld had me. There was no going anywhere to help anything, but this fire, for this salmon.
We cooked the salmon as he sang and played the harp. The people began to gather and mount the hill from both sides; my Bardic family and the organized Justin crew. The sky was still a clear blue and the sun was quite high being mid summer in Ireland.
When the salmon was finished he took me onto his lap, pulled out a wheel of Oak to eat from and with his wild man hands pulled a piece of the salmon from its bones and fed me from his fingers. Yes he did just that.
I looked up as people walked by -“it’s you!. We have heard about you Liam. The traveling Bard who no one can ever find. Oh, and you have cooked the sacred salmon”.
“Yes, my brethren. Gather ‘round and eat from the flesh of your brethren”.
They gather and he begins to sing, poetry in old world tongue falling from his mouth onto my heart, changing my life. He then looks at me and plants a wild kiss right on my lips. I closed my eyes knowing I would not be the same once I opened them again.
As I regained myself I looked up into the light early evening sky and out of nowhere, with no other sign of stars yet emerging, drifted a huge shooting star. I heard a voice “how many more signs do you need Granddaughter, receive?!”.
The bagpipes soared over the hill, the people emerged from all spaces, the fire was lit, the songs were being sung and I hung on a thread of mystery that can never ever be unraveled from me again.
I did not sleep all night as any good initiation will leave you properly high. And, yes, the wild Liam asked me to be his bride for that one moment in time but I kept my energy to myself. I still wonder what that would have been like, making love to a Bard on a sacred Irish hillside…
One of my teachers many years ago would always say “allow yourself to be changed”. As I boarded my plane the next day I allowed myself to be transformed. Or more like transfigured, as I have always known things about myself and I am now allowing them to emerge through my storytelling. This is my life. What can I say except it is why I pray each and every single day.
Blessed, blessed be.
They call you initiation island. As my feet landed upon your soil the keeners rose into my bones. The history of grief danced in the green hills and creaked from the cracked walls of stone. Everything spoke my name; the one I had forgotten. All except those guards at the gates of admission. They were tired of Americans entering lands without rightful permission.
My plan was to head West and out to the isles. But something inside said “go South- that thing you think you are seeking requires a few more miles.” I did not know where I was headed. Port McGee was my destination.
The healing we need requires Right Relationship. Right Relationship requires understanding and upholding boundaries of Natural Laws. We are a nation built upon abolishing boundaries and dominating Natural Laws.
We are a people who cry when one little fu**ing “freedom (ie.distraction addiction)” is taken away. Implying that the forces you so vehemently scream at for taking your rights are also the ones you believe give you freedom. You’re so not free my friend and you just gave “them” power over something that no one but your creator has power over.